Driven to Spanking

Wednesday, February 13, 2008

I recevied this as an email this evening. So technically speaking, this is not my post. Again, thanks goes to Becky for doing it first!

Most of America's populace think it improper to spank children.

The other day I was talking to one of my younger buddies about methods used to discipline children. We talked about 'time outs', grounding, holding back 'rewards' until the child displayed desired behavior etc. One of the things we discussed was the act of spanking and my friend explained that no, he does not spank any of his children.

He explained that what he does is to take the misbehaving child out for a ride in the car and talk. He said that usually this works and that the child calms down fairly quickly and really doesn't take too much time.

By removing the child, in this case his son, from the immediate situation and providing a change of scenery, the child is allowed to focus on something different. Once the child has the opportunity to change perspective, things get better quickly and the child has better understanding of his place within the family and begins to understand the family's concept of acceptable behavior.

He kindly shared a picture of the process which I share with you now.




3 comments:

Mommy said...

Nice...I like how the radar sign in the back says the car is going 99mph!! HA Do you think this will work with my spouse?

Anonymous said...

Haha, that actually got me to laught out loud:) Hope you guys are doing good! I can't go to the girls night:I Jeremiah will be out that evening.

rebekca said...

That's a change of scenery. And perspective.

Loved it!